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Paul McGregor
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My life was pretty ‘carefree’ up until I was 18. I grew up in a loving household, I had an elder brother of two years, I was academic at school and I played football nearly every minute I had spare.
Suddenly, my life was turned upside down.
On the 4th March 2009, my dad tragically took his own life.
After years of struggling with grief, depression and anxiety, I made the decision to start sharing my story in the hope of inspiring others and helping those struggling to feel less alone.
In 2020, Everymind at Work was born. My mission is to help businesses tackle the stigma of mental health at work and provide proactive support to employees.
The support my Dad never had.
Suicide is currently the biggest killer of men under 45 in the UK. The biggest threat to my life is me.
As a son, brother, husband and dad to three boys, I want to create change.
If my mission can make a difference to just ONE person. That's all that matters.
paulm@everymindatwork.com
Suddenly, my life was turned upside down.
On the 4th March 2009, my dad tragically took his own life.
After years of struggling with grief, depression and anxiety, I made the decision to start sharing my story in the hope of inspiring others and helping those struggling to feel less alone.
In 2020, Everymind at Work was born. My mission is to help businesses tackle the stigma of mental health at work and provide proactive support to employees.
The support my Dad never had.
Suicide is currently the biggest killer of men under 45 in the UK. The biggest threat to my life is me.
As a son, brother, husband and dad to three boys, I want to create change.
If my mission can make a difference to just ONE person. That's all that matters.
paulm@everymindatwork.com
Відео
Purpose driven by personal loss #shorts
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Purpose driven by personal loss #shorts
8 things my dad taught me before his suicide #shorts
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8 things my dad taught me before his suicide #shorts
My first ever public speaking experience #shorts
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My first ever public speaking experience #shorts
Are we trying to eradicate human emotion at work?!
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Mental health in the workplace is broken #shorts
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4 WAYS TO HELP YOU MANAGE ANXIETY #shorts
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Warning signs of suicide I couldn't miss #shorts
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DEALING WITH GRIEF AND LOSS | 5 Things That Helped Me
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7 THINGS THAT HELP MY MENTAL HEALTH
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I TRIED JOURNALING, AND THIS HAPPENED! - Journaling Tips For Beginners
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Looking For That Next 'HIT' Of Happiness?
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REACTING TO AN ARTICLE ABOUT MY DAD... (This Was Hard)
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Dealing With Guilt - "I Still Feel Guilty Over My Dad's Suicide"
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Does Social Media DAMAGE Your Mental Health? - Coffee With Paul #4
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Depression and Anxiety Test? - The Issue With Self Diagnosis
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Why Men NEED To Focus On Mental Health... (A Panel With David Gandy)
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You can't stop people
I don't want to talk about it!
I always feel alone even when people are near me
I constantly explained to my mother that school is the reason why I’m depressed and wanted to commit for a long time. But she always thought I was lying and tried making me say a reason that isn’t true. And what annoys me is that she doesn’t understand that just because I know about cars and computers doesn’t mean I’m smart.
Hate to tell you the truth but, it's because their parents never raised them well. Today's parents leave their child to do whatever the hell they want. Not even teaching them proper discipline. This is the reason why they turn to pathetic, likely trans, weak men. Physically, emotionally, mentally weak men. This leads them thinking they ain't worth anything just because of a teeny tiny problem in life and end up offing themselves in the process. Speaking from expereince btw
We all need help and support at times in our lives . No one gets anywhere without some no matter how outwardly good their life looks to others. I have known at least one person who committed suicide , and another I think but not sure. They were both in financial dire straits , worrying about job loss and potential homelessness with mortgage debt. They were both single , one was late 50s other 61 y.o. the latter had just lost his sister who he lived with a year before to cancer.
College makes me want to kill myself. I might not survive next semester.
So when it was a crime to suicide, what is the punishment? Death?
Dude, you can’t go walking in front of a lorry or, like me, trying to get in front of a train. Think of the poor driver, they’d be traumatized for life. We can’t do that to our truckies
Fuck School. Its just like prison with angry parents who punish you for bad grades so you get depressed start lying what you shouldnt really, sucide, hate for people etc.
The problem is NOT talking about this. Better that some ppl think you are crazy for voicing out loud how you feel, than keeping it all under wraps. At least you did say how you feel.
While men’s suicide rates are soaring, feminst movements are on the rise, and we keep hearing the message louder and clearer:men are not wanted. What the f is wrong with our world? Where did this begin??
Tom Brady wasn’t good enough, what chance does the average guy have?! 0
Carl Jung said that some men have ulterior motive, which is the metaphysical demon inside their psyche that told them to commit suicide to execute a social plan and send a symbolic message to the living ones, whatever it is.
I lost my father on the 6th of August and today we had his funeral. May my dear dad R.I.P in the Kingdom of God forever, Amen 🙏
You have a good point. When I was in college, I had depression, anxiety, and anger because I was struggling, I felt like a failure, and I felt left behind and not catching up with my other classmates.
This video is 8 years old now, at the time I am writing this comment, and the situation hasn't changed that much.
My daddy just passed July 25th. I’m so sad 😞
Why ppl don’t talk about it, even to loved ones, quite simply they feel, they will be judged, questioned with whys, the last thing that person wants to hear is ‘life is too short, be grateful to your life etc It comes across patronising, that they are being selfish. It’s about listening, allow the person the space to talk freely without judgement of any kind. You don’t have to understand it, but listen to why they feel like this. There is difference between having suicidal ideation and suicidal thoughts, by unpicking it slowly allows the person to unburden their pain. This deep pain is unbearable for that person that’s why they don’t want to talk about it
Sorry for your loss but in my case honestly I see it as a positive. I am single, no kids, no job (and if I work it has never been at a career, but a shitty job that pays almost nothing). Life is just going to get worse and worse. I will just end up on homeless or in some old age warehouse. I have nothing and no one. I might as well have never existed in the first place. Complete waste. I just struggle with just doing it. life is pointless
Don't assume that every men's situation is similar to your dad. Not every suicide should be prevented, especially in this world.
true
Why do ppl still think this matrix is real.💊👀
Man will never be perished under God's Kingdom once he hurt a woman's souls into an unexpected reason. His soul will never be forgiveness, so there's no way he can live again, he is useless and worthless.
Teaching high school makes me depressed and I’ve been suicidal all my life so it exasperates my conditions. I hate teaching so much. It’s glorified baby sitting.
For many men, - the only love they’ll ever know, is the love that came from their mother. Some men don’t even receive that … 😕
Listen to your video saved me❤❤❤❤😵🥵😓😰😰😰😰😥😢 please make more havent seen you in a year wow
Hypocritical selfish Women and feminism is a big reason to the madness
I also lost my dad two days ago on my birthday I’m 19 now seeing him like that was heartbreaking he had cancer in his tummy he was the best dad I could ever wish for and I really miss him RIP Daddy.😢😢I love you Dad.❤️
Being Ourselves ..... Yep ...definitely you will atract lot of women by That . Like imagin them with no provocative dress or hair and make up... Entire System promotes ONSUMPTION through creation of expensive false Projected image. Additionaly What thay crying in the Office will give you ... You will get percieved as a Burden , an extra LOAD , to already overloaded people.
In this fast pace world, where everybody is so Overbooked and bussy ... It is blatantly untruth to say : THAT men have people surroindimg them, that Man can count On .... Modern western system created thousands Org.s, 1800 tel. No., Dot.Coms and other bulls**** all over the Net. All - surrogats to WHAT Usef to be * A real family and * A real comunity. This modern shHole is just a congolmerat of Vibrating, disconected , not comited , running, selfAbsorbed and self preocupied INDIVIDUALS. That may give you 10-30 min. Of their precious TIME , (* UNDER the condition... that yoj are goint to be "*POSITIVE" /.. censoring any negative stuff)- ( = real stuff). People don't have adequate TIME For their oven children... Not for other people.
Fun fact i just posted this on Facebook.
Sorry for your loss, Paul
Amazing. 8 years old and the numbers are still climbing
Men aren't going to talk about it . There's no point in talking about it , the old black dog is relentless and yes we commit suicide.
Modern day feminism is a disease.
If we were all dead wouldn't judgement day come sooner? Having kids is a curse that keeps us bond to this earth. Probably why Jesus never had a wife and kids for these things make you love things of the world hindering you from seeing the bigger picture,DEATH where you'll be one with the creator. Lucky are those who died young. Being alive is a scam
Facts
Life is so bad Jesus had to die at 33 after realizing the struggle won't end anytime soon. The devil probably wants us alive so we part of his schemes on earth.
NHS mental health care is atrocious, as are the pharmaceutical drugs that seems to be all they offer.
In the sweet Cry is the pain severe. In the Sweet Bye & Die. August 17th 2006 I lost loved ones to Alzheimer's my aunt n uncle told me eat ----- & Die my daddy we had a falling out. I rolled a truck 5 times long ways end over end. I came real close to the sweet Bye & Die after that wreck in 2006 on Aug 27th.
Aug 17th not 27th
I Sorry for your lost❤❤
Here are the reasons for SUICIDE in 2024 : Bidenomics the Biden economy. America had the best years with the Trump presidency. Economic inflation has caused the rise in suicide. 1.) Inflated cost of living expenses leads to homelessness. 2.) No transportation from inflated insurance, repairs, and fuel. 3.) Living off of credit cards debt. 4.) Inflated tax debt. In my situation I am age 51. I am single and no offspring. I am Trump Constitutional Conservative Christian. America is a limited constitutional republic and not a democracy. I have campaigned and served in local elected public office. I have also been a target by the lawfare against Constitutional Conservative Christians in this country for supporting Trump. I am a disabled military combat veteran with 17 years of service. I have severe injuries to my back in my L1 to L7, T1 to T2, and C1 to C2 which does not permit me to work for an employer. I have been fighting with the Veteran's Administration bureaucracy for financial benefits for years now but to not avail. The government and America has not kept their promise to provide for their military veterans in their time of need as we all did for America and that is shameful ! Veterans service officers, attorneys, and lawyers are of no real help. I am on SSDI of $1590 per month which I could lose any day now under a CDR review. I will not give in the the government narrative and use a firearm to end my life. I have decided to either commit SUICIDE by ingesting cyanide or at my local Veteran's Administration medical center. Becoming a burden on society and begging others like family or the government to provide for you is not the solution. When you cannot financially afford to exist, what do you do ? Give the veterans the financial VA disability benefits, Compensation + Pension, and PACT act benefits that was promised and deserved. What is more important life or money ? It is unfortunate but SUICIDE in the Biden economy seems to be the only viable answer because if you do not exist there is no cost of living expenses. Thank you for reading my post and so long cruel world. 😭
If a man cries or show any signs of emotions they're wrong. So there's no point of living if all this life does is have you accountable and making you feel any less of a man because you have feelings no one well never want you to express.
I lost my father from cancer, one part of me died with him .
cuz its not worth it.
The rise of feminism has a massive influence on men’s suicide rates.
FR FR … and tbh, they don’t seem to care
Everyone's life should be valued and equal funding and community understanding of why this happens why good honest men are beaten down by narcissistic political woke correct types because good men care about good women who also care about good men this can only be dealt with in a positive way when this type of cynical evil is allowed to exist decency needs to prevail and no I'm not suicidal like you suggest nor even saying such a thing especially if someone is suicidal some of us watch this for empathy reasons
I've been experiencing some very tough times, my wife is sick, we have no family support and the future looks grim, financially but not just financially. I'm not sure how to stay motivated to live with these ingredients. People say I'm lucky to have been born in a rich country, and sure some have it far worse, but really with falling living standards and personal issues, life is just a soulless, spirit crushing grind.
I lost my dad June 15 , I watch him struggle 6hrs before he passed
Im only alive because of my daughter and son, my son has a terminal brain disease wirh a life expentancy of 10-13 years old. Hes 5. Im scared.